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The Effects of Wrong Association on your IQ (PART 2)



Psychologically, lt has been proven beyond reasonable doubt, that learning with people of like minds can help you learn faster and better. than when you are studying on your own. And been around young people, will also keep your thinking young and fresh, besides, a single conversation with the right persons, is a great learning tool, which can be more valuable than many years of studies. And remember, What YOU choose, is up to you. Don’t sabotage your academics and future by moving with the wrong people. Life is a team sport and no man makes it in life alone, no matter how intelligent you are. Obviously, your association can determine your future. And if you run with wolves you learn how to howl, but if you associate with eagles, you will learn how to soar to a great height like eagles in your studies. As a well-known fact, anytime you tolerate and accommodate the mediocrity and failures in others, whom you associate with, it increases your mediocrity and the failures in you, but in accommodating the genius and creativeness in others, yours increases also, thus it is better to be alone, than to be in a wrong company.


Jim Rohn says, “If you want to soar like an eagle, you better stop hanging around with turkeys”. Research has admitted to the fact that “brainstorming” characteristic of every genius work best with the power of association. The fact remains that, the friend or associate you choose to ‘stay with, is the most important decisions you will ever make during the course of your academic life. According to Charlie Jones “You are the same today, that you are going to be five years from now except for two things; the people with whom you associate with and the books read”. The less you associate with people who are cynical. pessimistic, negative and have nothing to offer the more your academic performance and brain power for clarity, concentration, mental sharpness and alertness will improve greatly.

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So as the chameleon, changes its colour in response to its environment. which could be the mud of the swamp or leave, of the Jungle, so the people you associate with, can change your attitude and ambitions. Besides if you want to be green, you must choose to be in a green environment, surrounded by green people. What is the grade of your academic performance? is it the grade of your choice? Life is a matter of choice and if you are coming out of school, with a distinction or an ordinary pass; the important thing is that, you must be determine to come-out with what you choose or decide, not what your school or department decide. After all, Albert Einstein, Bill Gate, William Shakespear, Thomas A Edison facebook genius, etc, choose to become a school “dropout” and today they took their generation by storm, by virtue of the power of association of good motivation books and people they choose to meet. Choose your friend and environment wisely and don’t allow them to choose you, for you are the architect of your future.


The size of your memory system, the peak level of your brain towards handling of complex academic problems, your power of concentration and mental sharpness and alertness; are all influenced by the people and good inspirational book you associate With. it iS also important, to be conscious of the people and versed books, you choose to hang around with and the influence they have on you with time. You choose to go from your academic weakness to strenght by the relationship you let go of and the relationship you foster. ,

Be careful of the following people so called stop peOple, because they can disturb your concentration, drain your mental energy and prevent you from moving forward academically. They will never inspire and motivate you, but jeopardize your destiny and academic.

Owing to this fact, the people you associate with have a significant impact on your life. The truth is that, when you do the right things, the right people will come into your academic life and vice versa. And remember, a tree cannot make a forest. And as a well “known fact no matter, how intelligent you are, you can’t make it in life alone. Be wise move with those who appreciate your past, believe in your future and accept you the way you are. Particularly, those who


will inspire and motivate you to be great.

in fact, how you recognized an intelligent person to associate with, is base on these principles;

An intelligent person;

* Accept others for whom they are.

* Have no time for unnecessary appointments.

* Is sensitive to other people’s need.

* Display an interest in the world at large.


Finally, studies had also admitted that, excellent recall is enhance, when you clearly associate new things, with what you have already known, besides the more association you make, the more your brain recalls, retaining power and comprehension rate increases. Obviously, when you associate yourself with those who are intelligent than you, it increases your intelligence and when you associate yourself with mediocre, your mediocrity will also increased.


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Simple and always Ready to help if it matters to you then it also matters me.
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